Wednesday, July 29, 2009

Fire WORKS!

We did some pioneering of our own on July 24th...our very first fireworks, lit by none other than Jacob. We had some friends over and lit off a few as well as sparklers. The boys were so excited, they made this little shrine while waiting for our friends to arrive:
Boy Art at it's best!

Needless to say, boys love fireworks and now that we've done 'em once, I think we're in trouble!!

All is well, all is well
(especially when you get a marshmellow/graham cracker/frosting/lifesaver wagon! Sounds like they got the main points of the holiday down, doesn't it?!?!)

Sunday, July 19, 2009

Natalie Lynn

When were dating, I loved to see how Phil treated his mom and his little sister Natalie. I figured that would be how he'd treat me and it's been true. I've realized over the years though, that it is easy to love Natalie. Natalie got to come spend last week with us and it was a such a pleasure.

Natalie is a twin and it didn't take too long to realize the differences in the development of the two babies. She is now 28 and though they never really found out exactly what was wrong, Natalie has a lot more things RIGHT than wrong. Having just spent the week with her, I noticed a few of those. Here are some of the great things I observed Natalie do this week that left me smiling:
  • She says hi to everyone. Now who of us are that friendly? We should be. Natalie shook countless hands and introduced herself to many new friends. She ought to run for office.
  • We went to an outdoor concert and Natalie clapped enthusiastically for some teenage girls dancing. They loved it! I'm sure they had no idea anyone was watching, but Natalie was! An instant fan and easy to please.
  • She was a great match for Micah at air hockey. They both had big smiles as the competition raged on.
  • Natalie belongs in a grocery store! We were at the children's museum and I watched Natalie behind the cash register talking to her customers. "Are you sure you need all these groceries?" "Wow, that's a lot of stuff you're buying." Think of the money we'd save if she was the one checking us out.
  • Never a dull moment with Natalie. We'd be driving home from one outing and she'd say, "So what's the plan now?" The boys loved it. They think I'm much funner when we have company and I must say Natalie was good motivation for a fun week.
  • Natalie is extremely helpful. I loved having a companion in the kitchen to make banana bread or set the table. Not that the boys don't help, but you know...We also enjoyed jamming to the music in the kitchen. She's great at lip-syncing.
  • Three words: Slip and Slide. If you haven't seen Natalie slip and slide, you are missing out! I think she had more fun than the boys, or at least just as much. Why can't we enjoy life like that?
  • Simple pleasures. Natalie has always admired (or at least been curious about) my painted toenails. So I asked her if she'd like me to paint hers. "Yes, I think I would." So cute. I couldn't resist the pictures of her in her new flip-flops and painted toenails. You look great Natalie!
We had a great time with Natalie. When she left for a day with her twin, the boys asked when she was coming back and Micah was sure he heard her voice. I'm glad my boys get the opportunity to learn while they are young that Different is Good.

Tuesday, July 14, 2009

Sunrise, Sunset

Sunrise, sunset
Sunrise, sunset
Swiftly fly the years
One season following another
Laden with happiness and tears
~Fiddler on the Roof

I had a reflective weekend. It started with my baby turning eight. I'm not sure how that happened, but it got me thinking. Then we went to Bear Lake (above photo) to my family reunion. Surrounded by my extended family, I felt like I should be the one cautioned to be careful instead of the one smearing sunscreen all over bodies every few hours. To see my cousins with their kids, who are also growing up, was a bit wild. It was great to sit on the beach, now that the 2nd cousins are getting a bit older, and talk, but it still feels a bit odd to be the parent in a place where I was always the kid.

I ended the weekend by visiting with 2 of my best high school friends, Angie and Sarah. I used to be the one that would come into town for too short weekends, and now I'm the only local. It was so good to be with them. It felt like a time warp as we met at Sarah's parents, who look exactly the same I might add, just like old times. A suburban still in the driveway, I expected Sarah's little brother to come out and taunt us as we walked up to the porch. He never came. Who did come were Sarah's 3 and 4 year olds, as well as baby Katie. Odd, very odd. And very cute!

I admit these events left me feeling a bit homesick. Homesick for simpler times (which of course weren't simpler at the time). Homesick for being a kid again. Homesick for old friends. Homesick for just showing up and not having to provide all the essentials. Homesick for one-on-one time with the first child. Even homesick for being the one who flies in from out of state.

Time keeps on ticking. And as much life seems to drag on some days, I know I need to enjoy each moment as much as I possibly can because these times too will pass and leave me longing for them. Laden with happiness and tears...

Thursday, July 9, 2009

EIGHT?

I'm not talking 8 bunny ears, though there were 8 of those, I'm talking eight years old!! Jacob hit a major milestone today turning 8. Why does that make me feel so old? We celebrated by having a party all day. Swimming lessons, park, water party, playing with his new erector set, hamburgers and more water once dad got home. I think it was a good one!
Nothing is better than Jacob giggling. He has been a lot of fun the last 8 years. Jacob is a good kid. He is a good brother and friend. He's a great son. It's almost painful to look back on those first few years when it was just Jacob. At times I long for those simple times. We were constant companions. But it's also fun to see Jake growing up and filling new roles. He loves sports, riding bikes and playing computer. Jacob knows what is right and sticks up for it. It's so exciting to think about him being baptized in a few weeks. I'm grateful to have Jacob in our home and family. Happy Birthday Bud!

Thursday, July 2, 2009

A Happy People

Last night, with several other members of our ward and stake, I headed up to the temple at 9:30 to clean until midnight. As we sat in the chapel in our little cleaning jumpsuits, I noticed something. Everyone was smiling. What a strange thing! How could all of these people be happy to be vacuuming already clean floors and dusting so that dust won't arrive? Well it's quite simple really. We were in the Lord's House participating in a tiny part of the big picture: eternity. I'm grateful to be a member of such a great organization. Though we all have our own unique challenges and struggles, we are One in trying to do our best and to be where we're supposed to as much as possible. Our love of the Lord and desire to do His will unites us and brings smiles to our faces as we serve Him together. I love associating with such a great people. Happy are we, Happy are we...